Broaching the topic of long-term health care can be a daunting task. Whether you’re an individual who is concerned about an older family member or an adult who is planning your own health care plan, here are a few tips to help guide the conversation.

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Be Clear
Why is this important to you? Carefully explain why you want to discuss the topic and what concerns you have.

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Be Prepared
Think through key issues and come ready with literature and resources that help explain or back up your decision.

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Listen
Because this is a sensitive subject, your family is bound to have many feelings. Even if they differ from yours, be sure to listen and respect each person’s opinion on the matter.

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Look for Opportunities
Finding the right moment to talk can be key. For example, using other people’s circumstances can be a great way open up the conversation; i.e., “What would you have done in that situation?”

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Address Concerns
Be honest and open about the decisions you’re facing.

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Don’t Get Overwhelmed
Tackling too many issues at once can be intimidating. Try having a series of conversations over time, instead.